Death Is Not Dying

Death Is Not Dying

Death Is Not Dying

Rachel Barkey is a sister in Christ who, after four and a half years of fighting breast cancer, was diagnosed with terminal cancer. She is a 37 year old wife and mother of two. Rachel says “Cancer does not define me. Neither does being a wife or a mother. All these things are part of who I am but they do not define me. What defines me is my relationship with Jesus.” In March of 2009 she gave a talk to women at her church in Vancouver, sharing about her hope in the midst of terminal cancer. I, along with many others, was blessed after hearing her testimony, and I wanted to share this with those of you who had not heard this yet. You may download an MP3 version of the audio to your computer by right clicking on this link, and selecting “Save As”.

If you would like more information, please visit her site at www.DeathIsNotDying.com.

God’s Amazing Promises

We completed the Excellent Wife series a few weeks ago, and let me say, the Lord greatly blessed this time! The audios from this time are available at the Christ Church website. So if you were unable to attend this study, or you missed a couple of the classes, or you just want go back through the study, you can find the audios here.

Also, beginning Tuesday, June 9, at 6:30 p.m., is a study on “God’s Amazing Promises“. The study will be led by Mrs. Elsie Newell. Workbooks will be available to purchase at the church on that night. When more information is available, I’ll post it here.

Ladies’ 2009 Spring Koinonia

“Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised” (Proverbs 31:30)

Just a reminder that you are invited to the Ladies’ 2009 Spring Koinonia. It will be held next Saturday, March 28th, 2009, from 8:30 am to 2 pm at The River Center of Saluda Shoals Park. Mrs. Delaine Blackwell will be teaching. Mrs. Ann Wilson and Mrs. Ann Forrest Bowers will each share a testimony. Using God’s word as a mirror (James 1:23-25), we will discover how God defines beauty.  It will become apparent that the influences of today’s culture and the tenants of the feminist movement have tarnished the reflection of God in our lives more than we realize.  The charge will be to renew our minds, obey God’s Word and exert a reforming influence upon our world. Lunch will be served at a cost of $5.

Please register by TOMORROW, March 20th. You may register here, or by contacting the church office at 803.254.5055.
“…I will watch expectantly for the LORD…” (Micah 7:7)

Ladies’ Spring Koinonia

The Ladies’ Spring Koinonia will be held at the River Center at Saluda Shoals Park on Saturday, March 28th from 8:30 am until 3:00 pm. Our speaker will be Mrs. Delaine Blackwell. In addition, we will hear of the Lord’s faithfulness from the testimony of Mrs. Ann Wilson. Lunch will be provided at a cost of $5.00 per person. For more information, please continue to check my blog, as well as here.

The Excellent Wife Study

The Excellent Wife, a 12 week Bible study will begin on Tuesday, January 13, from 6:30-7:30pm at Christ Church. Books will be available for purchase at the church. The study will be led by a team of teachers: Mrs. Janie Timmons, Mrs. Delaine Blackwell, Mrs. Luanne Ozmint, Mrs. Cindy Snell, Mrs. Nola Burnette and Mrs. Wendy Knox. Childcare is not available for this evening study. For more information, please refer to Christ Church’s website.

My Peace I Give to You

It always astounds me to realize how drastically our lives can change in one short year. This year brought some significant changes for our family, as it did for many of you. Annie has now left home to begin college and has loved her first semester at Clemson, for which I am immensely grateful. Rachel is in her last year of graduate school and living here with me until she graduates in May, which is a sweet gift. Branford lives close by and enjoys selling for his Dad’s company. We have all been stunned and saddened by the death of Marilee Armstrong at sunrise on December 8,2008. Yet we know that God did not create us to live with anxiety, which is evidenced by the harm that worry and stress produce in our bodies and our minds. We were created to walk in peace with God. This time of year, we read the familiar greeting of the angels to shepherds who were terrified. That greeting begins with “Do not be afraid…” and ends with “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace among men with whom He is pleased.” (Luke 2:10, 14)  This is not a promise for world peace, for scripture never promises that. In fact, Christ specifically tells His followers that wars and rumors of wars will continue right up to the end of time. (Matthew 24:6-7) What is promised is peace with God for those who trust in Christ. In John 14:27, Jesus prepares His disciples for the time that He will no longer be with them physically. His words have comforted His followers for 2000 years, and they seem especially poignant to us today.

“Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as the world gives, do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.”

Yet in this time of economic crisis and uncertainty, fear is rampant. Times of crisis test our faith, reveal our hearts and enable us to see what we really believe. The Bible gives us so many examples of men and women who were tested in the press of life. We are allowed to see their human failings, yet we also see the strength of their faith. God has recorded their journeys of faith and preserved them through thousands of years so that men and women of every age could find strength and encouragement from their testimonies. Yet, sadly, so few American Christians avail themselves of that blessing. Scripture has more to say about the second Advent of Christ than the first one, yet the western church seems to have lost her sense of anticipation and longing for His return. Perhaps life has just gotten too good here, and we have lost sight of our true purpose, which is to advance the Kingdom of God. It is evident that many are concerned only about advancing their own kingdoms, ignoring the One who has blessed our nation so extravagantly. These verses in II Timothy 3 say it best:

“But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good, treacherous, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God.”   Doctor Luke warns us that “men will be fainting from fear and the expectation of the things which are coming upon the world; for the powers of the heavens will be shaken.” Luke 21:26.  But thanks be to God, that is NOT the end of the story! Luke goes on to encourage God’s people in verse 28: “But when these things begin to take place, straighten up and lift up your heads, because your redemption is drawing near.”

And so this Christmas, I invite all of you to ponder with us, the second coming of the Christ, whose birth we celebrate. It is a wonderful way to examine your heart! Do you look forward to His coming with joy and anticipation? Will your legacy be like that of Joseph of Arimathea, who is recorded in scripture as “a prominent member of the Council, who himself was waiting for the kingdom of God” (Mark 15:43) For which kingdom do you expend your time, energy and resources ; your own or God’s? The kingdoms of men will continue to fall. The kingdom of God moves forward to it’s glorious climax.  My prayer is that we will not just survive the difficult times ahead; we will thrive in them! May our faith shine brighter than it ever has before, our joy more abundant, our love more fervent. This will only happen if we walk in the footsteps of the heroes of our faith, many of whom are recorded in Hebrews, chapter 11. Like them, we must  “lay aside every encumbrance, and the sin which so easily entangles us, and run with endurance the race that is set before us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfector of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. For consider Him who has endured such hostility by sinners against Himself, so that you may not grow weary and lose heart.” (Hebrews 12:1-3)

The Greek word for blessed is Makarios, and it means, “to be indwelt by God and thereby, to be fully satisfied.” God offers us that gift still. Like Mary, may we ponder these things in our heart and receive His gift of Makarios this Christmas.

Helpful Resources

Dr. J. Ligon Duncan and Complementarianism

Dear ladies, recently Dr. J. Ligon Duncan (pastor at First Presbyterian Church in Jackson, MS) spoke at a conference sponsored by The Council of Biblical Manhood and Womanhood (CBMW), and outlined six reasons why complementarianism – the full biblical witness of God’s glorious design for manhood and womanhood – remains vital for strong local churches. The six reasons he gave were as follows:

  1. Complementarianism affords an advantage to Christian discipleship.
  2. Our owning up to the God-designed complementarity of the genders frees us to read the scriptures faithfully and without twisting their meaning.
  3. Complementarity is the only faithful way to understand and defend the biblical vision for marriage in our culture.
  4. He antidote to the vast majority of worldliness in matters of sexuality and gender necessarily includes the complementarian structure found in scripture.
  5. Complementarianism allows us to preserve the authority of the Bible in all matters of life and practice.
  6. Complementarianism holds an important advantage in that it alone reveals to the world the gospel in the lives of married persons.

I highly encourage y’all to go to CBMW’s blog and read the article in its entirety. It is a great read! The article can be found at this link.

The Excellent Wife Study

The Excellent Wife

The Excellent Wife

I’m excited to announce the new Ladies’ study at Christ Church! Beginning January 13 will be an evening ladies study that will meet at Christ Church. This will be a 12-week study on the characteristics of an excellent wife. The study will be led by six ladies throughout the course of the 12-weeks. The tentative schedule for each week can be seen here. A helpful read is Martha Peace’s, The Excellent Wife. It can be purchased at Christ Church, a variety of online distributors like Amazon or Christianbook Distributors, or at a local Christian bookstore. There is no cost for this study other than the purchase of the book. If you want more information, please contact me. You may register for the study here.

Carolyn Mahaney: To Teach What Is Good

Dear ladies, I’m excited to inform you that Carolyn Mahaney’s To Teach What Is Good: Wisdom for Women from Titus 2 is now available for free download at the Sovereign Grace webstore. Some of the topics she deals with are self-control, purity, kindness, having a love for husbands and a tender affection for children, and making your home your center of ministry. Carolyn teaches about how these qualities in women glorify God and draw others to the gospel. I encourage you to take advantage of this opportunity!

The following are the messages. You can click on a message title to read its description and/or to download the free MP3.
1. A Fresh Look at Titus 2
2. Loving My Husband
3. Loving My Children
4. Being Self-Controlled
5. Being Pure
6. Being Busy At Home
7. Being Kind/Doing Good
8. Being Subject to My Husband

As you may know, Carolyn Mahaney is the wife of C.J. Mahaney, leader of Sovereign Grace Ministries, is the author of Feminine Appeal, Girl Talk, and Shopping For Time, and blogs at Girl Talk.